My Partner Underestimates Me + 6 More Traits All Unhealthy Relationships Share – Check If You Experience Any Of These
Nobody’s relationships are perfect, everybody has fights from time to time and everybody have their own troubles. But there are some situations where is crystal clear that this relationships just didn’t mean to be.
Nexter.org prepared you a list of such situations.
Aggression
Source: Identity Magazine
Violence is not okay in any case unless it is self-protection. If you experience any kind of violence from your partner – emotional, economic, or physical, it is time to go. Stop making excuses for him or her, if it happened once, it is more likely to happen once again. Do you really want to live in an abusive relationship?
You are unhappy
Source: Stylist
Well, this one is pretty self-explanatory but people tend to ignore this fact. Stop for a minute and ask yourself – are you happy with this person, what is it that makes you want this person in your life, do you really have feelings for this exact person or you are just afraid to be lonely again?
You can’t be yourself
Source: Wikihow
The key to healthy and happy relationships is common interests. If you enjoy doing the same stuff as your partner, if you like the same things and you can be your clumsy, silly, funny, true version of you this is wonderful. But if you feel like you can’t allow yourself to do something you want because you will be judged by your partner – it is not okay.
Isolation
Source: Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence
If you feel like your partner tries to isolate you from every other person in your life but him/her, this is not love, this is a domestic abuse which will lead to your total dependence on the partner and it is a red flag.
Guilt
Source: YourTango
In your partner always try to put all the blame on you, in in the cases where you are 100% sure it was not your fault or it was both of you, this is manipulation he or she uses to avoid responsibility for his or her actions. This is not a healthy relationship.
Underestimation
If you are in a loving and caring relationships, your partner will always try to make you feel good about yourself. It doesn’t mean that now he/she has to lie that you are good at something you’re clearly not, it means that he/she will always notice and celebrate your achievements with you.
Control
Source: We Heart It
If you notice that your partner is spying on you, reads your messages, controls your phone calls and everything you do without him/her, it is not love, it is an emotional abuse and invasion in your personal space. There won’t be any trust or love in such relationships, so you’d better let this person go.
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